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Michael Ashley
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Founder at Radi8 // Executive Coach // Host of the Inspiring Founders Podcast
Tom Shen said something in our conversation that I keep coming back to.
He drew a line between answers and questions. Answers, he said — everybody's got one:
"answers. Everybody's got one sometimes. And we've all worked with people like that. They got two or three. But questions,"
That last word hangs there for a reason. Good questions are rare. And the person who asks the right one often adds more value than the person with the ready answer.
I think about this a lot with coaches and consultants. There's a quiet pressure to prove you belong in the room by having every answer, deck loaded, solutions ready before the client finishes talking. It feels like expertise. Often it's the opposite.
The sharper move is to show up curious. A good question does more than fill a silence — it shows you already know what actually matters here. That's not uncertainty. That's judgment made visible.
Tom Shen made this point better than I can, in Episode 7 of the Inspiring Founders podcast. Worth a watch — link in the first comment.
So I'll ask you one: what's the best question you've been asked in a client conversation — one that changed how you saw the problem?
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